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Sunday, 08 March 2009

  • Fantastic Forty-Four

    Yeah I admit it, I turned the big double four last March 5th. My best friends threw me a nice intimate dinner party at my parents’ house .

    There was the usual pigging and boozing out and I got a set of wonderful gifts to boot. 
    With friends like these, I most certainly look forward to turning forty-five... 

Sunday, 25 January 2009

  • The Joy of Being Bert

    One of my great friends, Bert Manalo, never fails to make me smile. He is unapologetic about who he is, where he’s from, or what he has been through. His sense of humor ranges from the mundane to plain nonsense which cracks me up 100% of the time.
     
    On a serious note, I learned from Bert the importance of being real, and this he taught me by being just that, but not in a crass or offending way. No pretensions, no excuses. Bert is a class act, and I’m happy to be part of his audience.

Tuesday, 13 January 2009

  • Firsts for 2009

    My first road trip (to Baguio) for the year...


    My first time to visit PMA ...


    My first time to see the Presidential Mansion...


    My first photo with DJ (Douglas Junior) in Mines View Park...


    The first activity of the year was a blast! Hoping it won’t be the last!

Sunday, 28 December 2008

  • A Different Christmas

      It was a Christmas like no other in all my years. There were no fancy gifts.  No wild parties.  No mushy scenes.  It was a quiet dinner with my new-found family.  What was different this year? I was truly, genuinely HAPPY with the state of my world.  It was, indeed, a good year for me.  Much love to everyone involved.

Thursday, 18 December 2008

  • Season of Love

    I’ve known most of these guys for barely a year now...but I feel I’ve known them for decades. Some I met by accident, some by design, but all I’ve come to consider them my family as we celebrate our first year together as a brotherhood.

    During our group Christmas party in Tagaytay over the weekend , I reflected on how this bunch of wild and crazy guys got so close to me. There are those whom I previously disliked...and yet we’ve managed to become the best of friends. Then it dawned on me (cheesy as it may sound) that friendship brought us together, and love has kept us together.

    This has been a year full of surprises. I even surprised myself this year by letting my guard down (albeit too much on occasion), opening my heart, and letting a bunch of strangers in. Now they are my inspiration, my happiness, and my brothers.

Thursday, 11 December 2008

  • What A Pine City!

      Gee, the last time I was in Baguio City was in the early 90s (I’d say around 1994). I truly missed the frigid breezy air, the fresh veggies, and the relaxed atmosphere. Imagine my excitement when Big Daddy asked me and some close friends to accompany him there.  I jumped at the opportunity, even for just an overnight stay.   I was psyched up to endure a grueling 4-6 hour drive. To my surprise, the trip took at least an hour less because of the new Subic-Clark highway, which allowed us to skip most of Tarlac and straight into Pangasinan.
    The City was a lot different than when I last saw it more than a decade ago. Many of the streets were made one-way, and many buildings sprouted, including an SM mall near Session Road! Camp John Hay wasn’t as pristine as I remember it (because it was still under American Military operation), but the fresh scent of pine and the cold mountain air reminded me of the Baguio I remember as a young(er) man...peaceful, serene, and rejuvinating. This quick trip also provided an opportunity to bond with my buddies. Sometimes, it’s not the trip nor the destination, but the company that can make all the difference.

Wednesday, 29 October 2008

  • Father Figure

    He’s a mountain of a man, my friend Edward. We all fondly call him Big Daddy, and with good reason. He takes care of us. He shares our pleasure and pain, and is always there for more. Ironically, with me being eight years older, I didn’t think the TOD (term of endearment) would stick, but it has. Sorry, Big Daddy’s the strong, silent, and shy type so no photos of him here.

    Last Saturday was Big Daddy’s birthday and we celebrated like a real family... we laughed, ate, drank, and bonded (more than usual) to celebrate the special occasion. Big Daddy and I actually go way back, but it was only last year where our closeness began ... and we’ve been the best of friends ever since.

    I look up to Edward (literally and figuratively). His maturity and heart have taught me so much and made me realize that true wisdom doesn’t always come with age. All the best to you, Big Daddy, with all our love.  


Friday, 26 September 2008

  • Blessings - Part 2

     Here’s the other blessing I was referring to in an earlier entry. After more than six months away from ePerformax, I’m back! It was interview after interview, training session after training session since May of this year at another call center, and they failed to deliver what they promised. Then I heard (quite serendipitously) that my old call center bagged a prestigious Fortune 500 account. A few phone calls and text messages later, I found myself back in training again, not as an agent, but as a Quality Assurance Officer. The company was gracious enough to offer me my old job back in a spanking-new program with lots and lots of opportunities to move up. Gosh, how lucky can I get? Yes, my life is good...VERY good.

    My first week at work was like...well, coming home. Everyone remembered me, including maintenance and security staff. I even bumped into an old friend I coached at PayPal...the 4-time Aliw Awardee Pinoy Funk vocalist Mike Grape of Kala. Still as robust and jolly as ever, Mike and the rest of the office guys made me feel like I never left.

     I’m in my third month already with the program, and it hasn’t exactly been a bed of roses (being a start-up program and all). Every new account experiences growing pains, and I’m definitely up for the challenge. This experience will definitely showcase the stuff I’m made of, and if everything works out...I’d have finally found a career to stick with for the long haul.

Monday, 15 September 2008

  • People Who Need People

    streetscape I heard somewhere the UNIVERSE favors a certain person, and that it grants him inner peace and tranquility. Well, that being the case, what does this person need the rest of us mortals for?  Why doesn't he just move to the mountains, or better yet a barren planet where people skills aren't necessary?

    If that's what true happiness is like, then count me out of the race. PEOPLE make me happy, not that universe or positivity crap. It's the LOVE and FRIENDSHIP that sustain me, not some self-serving happy-go-lucky hippie existentialism.

    As for me and my friends, we stuck together through the best AND the worst. Now that the storm has passed, we're still STUCK WITH EACH OTHER...and loving it.

     

Thursday, 28 August 2008

  • Taking Out The Trash

    In conjunction with my last post, I’d have to say that things went from bad to worse for my group of friends in a short span of a week. Tempers flared, relationships severed, and bridges were burned. This is the worst time for us but like we promised each other from the start, we’d hang together through thick and thin. In the spirit of change, I've decided to start with my blog skin. It’s been, after all, more than 2 years -- out with the old (and worthless), in with the new attitude.  
         Change is inevitable. Everyone needs change in order to grow. Our group has survived its growth so far, but not without growing pains. After this has died down, I can honestly say we're ready for anything now.

Friday, 22 August 2008

  • Of Friendship, Lies, and Judging Character

    I truly, honestly, absolutely dislike writing about negative things, especially in my personal blog. This for me is a treasure trove of fond memories (with a sprinkling of some not-so-fond ones for balance). But I guess positivity in life is more appreciated with the presence of negativity, so here goes...
         I said earlier that my life was like a roller coaster ride. Imagine, if you will, being at the peak of the highest point of the ride, then just letting gravity take over.  Fear. Panic. After reaching the bottom of the hill, you’re dazed and confused about what just happened. Then sadness sets in (Why did this have to happen?) which graduates into anger (To hell with them!) , then eventually into apathy (I just don’t care anymore.) Sounds like a romantic breakup, don’t it? In some aspect, what recently happened inflicted more pain than I could have imagined.
         Without going into too much detail, there were some revelations made about certain people close to me (or at least I thought they were close to me). For the curious and inquiring minds out there, that ISN’T them in the photo ... those are most of the people who inspire me to make it through the work week so I can be with them.
         Going back, I allowed those individuals to hurt me by my being too trusting, too accommodating, and too assuming. At my age and after all I’ve been through, how could this happen? You’d think after all I’ve been through, I’d be one to put up my guard at the sign of (potential) threats, but no. In my long list of shortcomings, being a sucker for friendship’s sake ranks up there. I am easily fooled, perhaps because friendship is such a rare commodity nowadays. I’d welcome people I consider superficially attractive into my circle of friends, and end up kicking myself after being figuratively screwed. Well guess what, people? My innocence ends HERE and NOW. No more giving people the benefit of the doubt, no more Mister Congeniality. Unless they can prove to me (over time) that they are worth knowing and keeping as friends, my doors will be shut and my guard will be perpetually up. Harsh, you say? I’ve been used and hurt way too many times to care.

Wednesday, 13 August 2008

  • Blessings - Part 1

    The last three or four months have been a roller coaster ride. I’m happy that I’m on my way up lately -- many blessings have come my way. Aside from my new job (which I will tell you all about in Part 2), this awesome mountain bike literally came out of nowhere and onto my lap. My brother Gabby offered it to me... at my own terms! It seems it was a deal he couldn’t resist, then realized he had one bike too many.
    It’s got an aluminum frame, front suspension, disc brakes, black anodized rims, and dual purpose tires.  The group components are by Shimano. It’s a sweet ride, and something I’ve been praying for since I was forced to sell my orange Specialized MTB some months back. Not only can I re-start my fitness drive, I can also save gas by going to work on it.
        I’m back in the saddle (again) and I’m loving it. My life, though not perfect, is still really good. I have nothing to complain about. Thank you, Gabby. And thanks to the Big Guy up there.

Tuesday, 05 August 2008

  • Complete!

    The birthdays of two of my dearest friends, Troy and Nes, were enough to bring the rest of my groupmates together one rainy Saturday night.   For the first time since we formed our brotherhood, our attendance was perfect, and I once again felt complete The food, bonding, and laughter were enough to pass the time until early Sunday morning.
         Still on the topic of living a balanced life, I unintentionally read somewhere that one can be perfectly happy alone. Perhaps in the author's case this is true since that’s only where HE is happy... in his own self-serving UNIVERSE with HIMSELF RIGHT SMACK IN THE MIDDLE.  In my case, after months with my best friends and brothers, I'd be crazy to stay away from these wonderful people who provide me with GENUINE PEACE AND LOVE

Thursday, 17 July 2008

  • The Ultimate Reliever

    What can relieve depression and sadness better than food? I'm sure everyone out there has their own list of methods, but number one on my list is anything edible, especially if it's from S&R, the price club. I'm so glad I renewed my membership. Lately I've been bringing my friends there because of the clean environment, huge servings, and value for money. Aside from the pizza and ice cream, we always pig out on the churros, calzone, chicken roll, garden salad, and the bottomless soda! Oh yeah, you can also do your groceries there ...

Monday, 23 June 2008

  • Smart Move

    After making a reservation and practically waiting forever, my sister Tina and her housemate, Stella, in California finally got their new Smart car! Even if it seems golfcart-ish, I find it uber cool because of its futuristic look, color scheme and all. It's appropriately termed a "Micro" vehicle  and definitely has its advantages:  easy to park, easy to maintain, and of course ... fuel economy. I guess this vehicle is earning its name because of the rising fuel prices in the States. And the best part is that this car is exempted from highway toll because it travels in the car pool lane!  That's huge savings for them. I'm so happy and excited for them, even if I never expect to fit into one, let alone drive one. Sa sobrang tuwa ko, I even went looking for a scale model of one. You know how it is with me and toys. More pics of the new car in Tina's Picasa album. Happy SMART driving!

Friday, 30 May 2008

  • Get My Thrift?

    ukay04 ukay03 One day at Makati Cinema Square, I noticed a large store space filled with rows of clothes.  The place was sparsely decorated, but nonetheless clean, well-lit, and airconditioned.  What caught my eye were the extra large tee shirts on display.  Some looked new, while others looked newly-washed.  Then I realized I was in a thrift store, or Ukay-ukay in local terms.  The first thought which came to me was "I hope no one sees me here..."

    ukay01 Much to my pleasant surprise, I was able to find some really great unused tee shirts as well a couple of slightly used ones with cute designs at the cost of 3 for P 100!  The unused ones included Late Night with Conan O'Brian, M&Ms Christmas, Jerry Garcia's "All Good Things", Johnny Mnemonic, and the North Face.  The slightly used ones: New York Knicks, MTV Jackass, and the American Cancer Society.  The total I spent for eight shirts (purchased over three trips) could barely pay for one (1) brand new tee shirt in a mall!

    Besides the economics, I enjoy looking through thrift stuff because it's like reading someone's personal history.  Some of the stuff there is so worn and ratty, I couldn't help but picture in my head how the owner looked and what he or she had been through. 

    Cheap, you say? I could care less.   I'm savoring the few moments in my life (like this one) wherein I could shop like there's no tomorrow and not lose an arm and a leg.

    (Note: The above photos feature a US surplus/thrift store in my office building in Cubao.  Another interesting place to browse, but this place has used shoes, toys, sports equipment, and even household appliances and electronics as well)

Monday, 26 May 2008

  • Surprise!

    BDay20Richard20-2000291[1]DSCN2476Troy and I were contacted by our close friend Rein about taking part in a surprise party he was planning. Richard, Rein's housemate, celebrated his birthday on May 22nd.  We offered to take Richard out to dinner at Trinoma last Saturday night, but we advised him that we would make a little "stopover" at a private pool under the pretense that Troy was planning to reserve it for his office teambuilding activity.  When we reached the private pool, the owner unwittingly blurted out that there was a surprise party in progress! Richard still had no clue, and sat down with Troy and the owner to discuss the terms.  That left us with the dilemma of getting him into the venue (where all of Richard's close friends had gathered to surprise him).  I just said "Oh what the hell" and called Richard out of the meeting.  I said, "Richard, halika dito" and led him to the entrance.  The place was dim and the door was ajar.  I swung the door open and literally shoved Richard inside, where he stood among silent figures in the dark.  His initial reaction was one of FEAR (complete with emote)  until everyone started singing "happy birthday"!  Needless to say, we had one grand time eating, swimming, horsing around, and getting plastered with tequilla and beer. 

    BDay20Richard20-2000821[2] It was definitely challenging to keep a straight face while acting, but it was worth it in the end ... Richard had NO clue about what was going to happen.  His reaction made it all worthwhile.

    I'm constantly amazed at the lengths for which true friends will go for each other, just like Richard and Rein.  That's what REAL LOVE can do.

Tuesday, 20 May 2008

  • A New Start

    It's been a while, but I'm finally back.  The last three months were spent at a mom & pop shop where I was paid (quite well) to sit around in a non-airconditioned environment and surf the web.  Occasionally I'd be asked to research a certain topic and write non-essential stuff.  Was it paradise for me?  Definitely not.  I had nothing to do with the core business, which was ceramics.  Five years from now, I had no clue what I would be doing for this firm.  Given that I was already a Quality Supervisor at my previous job in a call center, I opted to to return to the industry.  At least there I have direction and goals to look forward to.

    I found Stellar in the job section of the Sunday Bulletin.  They were looking for Quality Analysts for a new program.  Here was what really got me moving:  the account is Australian, which meant working in the daytime (Australia is 2 hours ahead of the Philippines) on e-mail only.    The interviews were typical, while the exams were a bit challenging.  I'm thankful that I passed.  The account has yet to get off the ground because of technical issues, so my colleague and I are on standby. Good thing we're getting paid!

    On the personal front, it's also a new beginning for me.  I now know who I should love and respect, and vice-versa.  The masks are off and the cards are on the table.  They've showed me what's in their HEART and I know the TRUTH.  No more TIN MAN.  No more DOUBLE TALK or DOUBLE STANDARDS.  I couldn't be happier with what I have.  It's time to move on and never look back...

Monday, 14 April 2008

  • The Art of Spoiling Photos

    One visit to Bruno's Barbershop, I browsed thru a copy of FHM. Apparently, the magazine has a section wherein readers submit and rant about photos that were "spoiled" by total strangers who posed with them. This really intrigued the prankster in me. Then Troy and I would casually walk behind posing groups or individuals in malls and make faces.
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    This behavior soon carried over to our group of friends where we've elevated picture spoiling to an art form. And yes, we've experienced karma as some of our photos were infiltrated by total strangers in public, so now we only SPOIL our own gang's pics ... all in the name of fun of course.


Wednesday, 26 March 2008

  • Mini Me

    One day I noticed my good friend Pau's BLOG signature had a cartoon rendition of himself. He directed me HERE where I could create one of myself. So, how'd I do?
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    I also tried my hand at making one for Troy. Hope he likes it!
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